Example
Flame
Likes you
LIKE
NOPE
SUPER
Discover
Your rank · Spark
Example
Ember
Likes you
LIKE
NOPE
SUPER
Example
Spark
LIKE
NOPE
SUPER
Example
Ember
LIKE
NOPE
SUPER
Example
Phoenix
LIKE
NOPE
SUPER
Swipe the card. ✎ comments on their prompt. ★ is a preview, not a purchase. Last active and distance stay free.
No one new in this preview
You have seen the five examples. A real deck says that. It does not invent people, and it does not send a like that is not there.
No matches yet
Like Jordan or Alex. In this preview they already like you. Real messaging will be free.
That opener is too empty. Mention their prompt, or say something only they would recognize.
Preview only. Either person can speak. This chat does not expire, and rank never locks it.
Open a match to talk. These people are examples.
You are Spark. Ranks are earned. They limit how many new people a new account can reach. They do not charge you to talk.
- Spark · youEmail and phone. Blurred photos. Free replies. A few new chats a day.
- EmberReal use. Clearer photos. More new chats. Not for sale.
- FlameSelfie pose plus vouches. Full search. Who viewed you.
- BeaconCan vouch for other people. A search boost. Still cannot buy it.
- PhoenixLong-term members. Optional ID. Ambassador tools.
You · preview
- 0Kindling
- 3New chats/day
- 0Matches
Discreet icon
The real app can look like a calendar. Alerts say “New message”. Never the text. Never a photo. Never the word herpes.
- Clear photosEmber. Not for sale.
- Who viewed youFlame. Distance and last active stay free.
- Vouch for someoneBeacon.
- Message a matchFree at Spark. Stays free.
Signups are closed until a privacy policy and terms exist. Nothing on this screen is stored.
Preview match
It’s a match
You and Jordan liked each other. Example only. Either of you can speak. This match does not expire, and the chat stays in this browser.
Like with a line
Report
Why are you reporting them?
App PIN
Preview lock
Four digits. Nothing is saved. Dismiss is always here so you cannot get stuck.
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Free · privacy-first · herpes dating
The dating site that’s actually free.
Match and message at $0. Trust is a rank you earn — Spark, Ember, Flame, Beacon, Phoenix — not a $30 paywall. Your profile is not sold and not copied onto other sites.
- Free to join, free to message, free to match.
- No fake “someone likes you” bait. The likes on this page are labeled examples.
- Verified by people, not by paperwork.
What to tap tomorrow
- Swipe, or use ✕ ✎ ★ ♥. ✎ comments on their prompt. Like Jordan or Alex.
- Open the chat. “Hey” is pushed back. Block and Report sit on the thread.
- You: discreet icon and the PIN screen. Rank still does not charge you to talk.
Ready on the IP
- Swipe, line, super, match, chat
- Empty-opener nudge, block, report
- Discreet icon and PIN preview
- No accounts, no health fields
Waiting on keys
- theheeps.com still parked
- No mailboxes yet
- WordPress stays off
Open http://72.62.174.164:8099/. theheeps.com is still the parking page. Not medical advice. 18+. Target launch: end of October 2026.